Why not her?
Why me? is usually accompanied by its equally frustrating and ugly sister…Why not her?
There’s no discretion to whom you’ll mentally apply this one – from beloved female family members and friends to the woman with one too many packets of chips in her shopping trolley in front of you at the check out. Scrutinising what they did differently or what you did wrong is natural but unhelpful and once again comes back around to that same answer – its happened to you not her because its just the way it is.